Expectation versus Experience – failure or presence

I was speaking to a friend recently about a career change and we had a coaching conversation about this. They’ve always succeeded in what they do and rely on this results focused approach to progress in their career. This move was a change from an company they’d been with for a while. It was time […]

Daily consistent effort, giving value before you expect it and iterating your approach to the environment as it is = goal achievement?

Too often we hear people who give up after committing to something for an extremely short amount of time.  We’ve lost patience for the outcomes we want, and instead of blaming our consistency, blame the system we’ve followed to achieve the success.  Instead, be patient. Take small steps daily that take you closer to your […]

Give value first – then get value 

I did a post recently on the 3 things people could do to increase their luck. The first of these was to always give value first before you expect to receive it. Too often we think the world owes us something. That because we’re here and alive people should fall at our feet and rejoice! […]

You’re crap – do you want to be better?

Reading this morning about how we’re a diamond, covered in horse crap, coated with nail polish to make our appearance appear like we’re ok and it got me thinking of how not ok with failure, or perceived failure, we are. We often hold ourselves to these crazy ideals of perfection that are unattainable or at […]